Time has a wonderful way of showing us what really matters.
This could not be more true on a day like today. Good morning everyone. đ
As I sit here and type this post (yesterday), my mind is pretty blank of all thoughts. I canât really think about what I want to write, but all I know is that I want to publish something, and soon.
Lucky for me, thatâs what Thursdays are forâŚ
âŚthinking out loud!
As always, thank you to Amanda of Running With Spoons for allowing me to share my random thoughts on this day!Â
Those feelings of devoid and blank thoughts that I talked about above are exactly how I felt 2 years ago when I took a leap and started this blog, A Dancerâs Live-It. Thatâs right, today is my 2-year Blogiversary and I cannot believe how quickly time has passed!
So much to reflect on and be thankful for. Bear with me today guys, itâs about to get a little sappy and reminiscent. đ
I remember attending my cousinâs wedding (happy anniversary, Steph and Mike!) the day before I knew I wanted to start my blog. I had chosen the name (with my momâs help) and decided to go live the day after. I had no idea what I was doing. The only information I âknewâ was from reading the various other blogs I had been following at the time: Julie, Georgie, Dana, Lauren, Monique, Sally, and Katie.
I paid for the premium version of WordPress, bought myself my domain name, and boom. I had a blog. When I hit âPublishâ on my first post, âHello Againâ, I gulped. This was it, I was now LIVE! Would my family think Iâm weird? Would I actually have readers? How do I paste an image into a post again?Â
At first I thought my blog would be a catalyst in helping me recover from my eating disorder, but at that time, I had only been reading mostly food blogs. So then I thought I would try to do the same with all of my oatmeal recipes. Yeah, didnât work out so well. Turns out you actually need to invest TIME and MONEY into a food blog, something that a poor college student didnât have the means for.
Honestly, I didnât find my blogging âvoiceâ until this year. Up until then I felt like I was almost âcopyingâ the post formats and voices of others just because I knew they got a ton of traffic and followers. This year, I finally figured out what I like to post about and where I want the blog to go from now on.
So, what happened to me and the blog in those 2 years? Â
Keep in mind, none of these things listed are for bragging purposes. I honestly want to remember these past two years, it went by so fast! Sorry the list is so long, but a lot happened!
- I started my undergraduate degree as a Dance Performance Major in a new city.
- I developed my eating disorder shortly after starting college.
- I started to educate myself about the blogging world and how things worked. (Thanks, John!)
- I almost had to leave school after my first semester because I was so thin. This affected my blogging quite a bit.
- I discovered just how HUGE the blogging world is.
- I got my two tattoos!
- I started to post more frequently to increase traffic, and it helped a LOT.
- I started reaching out to brands and even became a part of the siggiâs Culture Club!
- I made a Facebook page for A Dancerâs Live-It and improved my Instagram.
- My friends started to become interested in what I was blogging about.
- I was featured as one of The Oatmeal Artistâs âOatmeal Enthusiastsâ.
- I reached out to other bloggers and thanked them for their inspiring stories. We ended up having similar stories about body image, eating disorders, and the struggle of recovery.
- I stopped running and figured out what exercise I liked best.
- While recovering, I started to discover my immense love for baking and blogging about that. This also turned into a catalyst for helping me recover.
- I MET SALLY from Sallyâs Baking Addiction!!!!
- I changed the look of my blog. Twice. đ
- I finally switched to a self-hosted site.
- I joined the BGB Community and met a TON of amazing and inspiring women, some of whom Iâve become very close with. <3
- I started the Warrior Women Wednesday series, inspired by the ladies of BGB.
- I realized that life is waaaay too short to worry about the little dumb things that happen. So always BEÂ HAPPY AND BE WELL! đ
If you made it this far, bless you!
One more thing thoughâŚ.I am beyond grateful for every single one of YOU who take the time to read my blog. Whether you check in every day, once a week, or once a month, YOU are the backbone of this whole operation. Without all of you, this blog wouldnât function and I would have given up a long time ago.
From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU.
Never give up on something that you think wonât turn out well. I still have a LONG way to go, but the blog isnât going anywhere anytime soon, and neither am I. đ
Be well. Â Iâm so blessed.
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